Sports Psychology Advice For Athletes And Entrepreneurs: How To Recover From A Setback

Yesterday, a reporter from a national magazine interviewed me to get some

of my thoughts on how I help people to get past a major setback in one’s life. This writer

was particularly interested in the best ways to help men overcome disappointments

in business and in sports.

Life is certainly loaded with disappointments and setbacks. Learning to be

resilient is a very useful and important skill. I thought that some of the ideas

I shared with the reporter would be helpful to the readers of this column.

So, here are a few tips and thoughts on recovering from a setback in your life:

1. In my view, there are no failures in life. Rather there are successes and learning

experiences. And in fact, we learn much more from our setbacks than we

learn from our successes. Always ask yourself what you can learn from something

that did not go as well as you would have liked it to have gone.

2. Surround yourself with a support network that can give you advice and can

nurture you through your crisis. Going it alone can be very tough. Supportive

friends, family members and colleagues can be very helpful.

3. Conversely, negative people can make you feel worse after a crisis, so you may

want to avoid people who are likely to give you bad advice or be unsupportive

of your feelings and your situation.

4. Champions in sports and successful entrepreneurs show great resilience in the

face of adversity. Reading biographies and autobiographies of people who have overcome

significant obstacles in their lives can be very inspiring. (Winston Churchill’s

autobiography is a fascinating story about perseverance in the face of a crisis.)

5. When you feel overwhelmed by a slump or by a series of unfortunate events,

it is very important to develop a step by step plan of action which allows you to

break the problems down into small steps and solve them one by one.

6. Take a step back from the problem you are facing and remove your ego from the

situation and ask yourself how a wise and calm person would manage the situation.

7. Reflect on what you have done to succeed in the past and utilize that knowledge

and experience to address what is confronting you now.

8. Some of my patients find prayer and religion to be quite helpful when they are

in a tough spot.

9. If the problems facing you cause you to feel depressed for an extended period of

time, professional counseling for some support, guidance and encouragement

might be a good idea.

10. Last, always remember, “You can never stop the waves, but you can always learn how

to surf.”

Other tips sports psychology tips and programs to perform to your fullest potential

are available at www.StayInTheZone.com

Jay P. Granat, Ph.D. is a Psychotherapist in River Edge, NJ.

Dr. Granat

About Dr. Granat

Since 1978, Dr. Granat has counseled thousands of highly competitive athletes from many different sports. His clients have included golfers, tennis players, bowlers, runners, boxers, baseball players, basketball players, pool players, hockey players, ice skaters, wrestlers, fencers and martial artists. (Satisfied Clients) on this site. Now athletes who are struggling with choking, nervousness, lack of confidence, negative thoughts, self-doubt, lack of energy or concentration problems can get the help they need to excel in their respective sport by phone.
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